Introverts crave personal space to reflect and refuel, and they can sense when their partners need space, too

Introverts crave personal space to reflect and refuel, and they can sense when their partners need space, too

They make quality friends

Since introverts can feel their energy being drained by being around other people – as opposed to extroverts, who gain energy from being with others- introverts choose their friends wisely. They would rather have a few close, trusted friendships to invest their time and energy aisle kosten in, as opposed to a large network of acquaintances, according to Buelow.

“Introverts are pretty picky about who we bring into our lives,” Buelow says. “It requires some energy, and if you do come into our inner circle, that means a lot.”

They make loving romantic partners

“Because we have this need for our own privacy, we give that to others as well,” says Buelow. “We won’t be super clingy or high maintenance in relationships.”

And the same qualities that make introverts great listeners also make them great partners, according to Kahnweiler. At the end of a long day, they’re there to listen and support their partner without feeling compelled to talk about themselves.

Introverts also like to get to know someone before sharing intimate details with a prospective partner, and it can make them appear more appealing in the early stages of relationships.

“There can be something attractive about the mystery factor of introverts,” says Helgoe. “That can inspire curiosity and wanting to know the person better.”

They’re thoughtful networkers

Being in a large group where the goal is to meet, talk and make a good first impression can be overwhelming for many – especially for introverts. But Buelow says they can use their natural strengths to create meaningful connections. Extroverts may approach networking events with the goal of talking to as many people as possible, but often, those quick conversations don’t leave lasting impacts, says Buelow. Continue reading “Introverts crave personal space to reflect and refuel, and they can sense when their partners need space, too”